Death is unpredictable.

A death serves as a stark reminder that life is unpredictable. We often take time for granted, assuming there will always be another opportunity to reach out, share love, or express how much someone means to us. Yet, life doesn’t come with guarantees, and moments pass us by faster than we realize.

Why do we wait for the “perfect” moment to connect with our loved ones? Perhaps it’s because we’re caught up in the routines and demands of daily life. Or maybe we fear vulnerability, worrying about how our emotions might be received. But in waiting for perfection, we miss out on what truly matters—the chance to be present, to let others know they are valued and loved while they’re still here.

Death teaches us that time is finite. The perfect moment doesn’t exist; what we have is now. Instead of holding back, we should embrace the imperfections of life and take every opportunity to express love and gratitude. A simple “I miss you” or “I appreciate you” can create moments of connection that linger, reminding us that the most meaningful interactions are often the ones we don’t wait for.