When we disconnect from our roots, we disconnect from ourselves.

From a psychological perspective, a child’s relationship with their parents forms the first emotional blueprint of safety, belonging, and identity. When that bond becomes fractured through blame or emotional disconnection, the nervous system often remains in a state of unrest. The mind searches for answers, the heart carries unresolved conflict, and the body holds tension that has no clear outlet. Over time, this inner split can show up as anxiety, confusion, or a persistent sense of being lost.

From a spiritual perspective, parents are not just caregivers  they are the channel through which life itself flows. Regardless of human imperfections, this life force connection remains. When a person rejects or resists their origin, they unconsciously resist parts of themselves. This inner resistance disrupts emotional harmony and blocks the natural flow of peace, grounding, and vitality.

Healing does not mean excusing hurt or denying pain. It means acknowledging reality as it is  honoring where life came from while choosing one’s own path with awareness. When blame softens into understanding, and resistance turns into acceptance, the mind settles, the body relaxes, and the soul finds stability.

True healing begins when we stop fighting our roots and instead learn how to stand on them  consciously, compassionately, and freely.