For much of human history, life was uncertain. Our ancestors lived through harsh seasons, unpredictable harvests, and the constant possibility of losing what they had. To survive, they learned to store, protect, and hold on to resources tightly. That instinct kept them alive. Today, most of us don’t face the same daily threats to survival,Continue reading “Scarcity Mindset: The Ancient Story Our Minds Still Tell”
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What feels like Home
Home is not just walls or a place; home is the embrace of my parents, the safety of knowing they were my roots. Home is the laughter and warmth of family, the place where I first learnt love and belonging. Home is, in my amazing, beautiful girls, in their voices, their hugs, and the wayContinue reading “What feels like Home”
When Strength is Misunderstood
I have always carried a deep respect for individual differences. I never wanted to impose my way of thinking or living on those I love. Yet, despite this, I often found myself misunderstood. My family sometimes saw me as opinionated, bossy, or strong-headed. Those words have weighed heavily on me, not because I saw myselfContinue reading “When Strength is Misunderstood”
A Letter to Myself – Reclaiming My Agency
I see the pain you carried when you were left waiting, waiting for love, waiting for touch, waiting for your husband to notice and choose you. I know how heavy it felt to be met with rejection, to feel invisible in the very place where you longed to be seen the most. But today, IContinue reading “A Letter to Myself – Reclaiming My Agency”
Forgiveness as a Path to Reclaiming Power
Forgiveness is often misunderstood as weakness, as if letting go of resentment means excusing the wrong that was done to us. In reality, forgiveness requires immense internal strength. To forgive is to reclaim the power that pain, betrayal, and anger once held over us. When someone deceives or betrays us, it can feel like theyContinue reading “Forgiveness as a Path to Reclaiming Power”
The myth of sacrifice in relationships
Somewhere along the line, I, too, believed that sacrifice was the mark of true commitment in relationships. I thought love meant putting my needs aside, letting go of parts of myself, and carrying the weight in silence just to keep the bond intact. For a while, I convinced myself this was strength, loyalty, and evenContinue reading “The myth of sacrifice in relationships”
A Soul Reminder from My Inner Child
Beloved, Joy has always lived within you.It is not hidden in the distanceit rests in the laughter of small moments,in the softness of a smile,in the wonder of simply being. You were enough before the world told you otherwise.You are enough now.Let this truth steady your heart. Express yourself as you areunpolished, unfiltered, free.Your authenticityContinue reading “A Soul Reminder from My Inner Child”
Forgiveness: Reclaiming My Power
I remember the day I realized I was exhausted from carrying anger. It wasn’t just the betrayal that hurt. It was the way I kept replaying it in my mind, as if reliving the moment could somehow change the outcome. But all it did was drain me. That was the day I understood: holding onContinue reading “Forgiveness: Reclaiming My Power”
Every Breath a New Beginning: Vipassana in My Life
Finding peace, clarity, and resilience through awareness “Peace is not found by escaping life, but by meeting it with awareness.” There are moments in life when challenges arrive like unexpected storms, testing our patience, shaking our stability, and leaving us searching for ground to stand on. For me, Vipassana became that ground. Over the years,Continue reading “Every Breath a New Beginning: Vipassana in My Life”
Stop Waiting for the Perfect Life: Build It Where You Are
Happiness doesn’t come from greener pastures—it grows where you water it. Learn how daily habits, consistency, and mindset shifts can help you build the life you want right now. Happiness Isn’t “Out There”Many people believe happiness will finally arrive once they switch careers, move to a new city, or find the “right” relationship. But chasingContinue reading “Stop Waiting for the Perfect Life: Build It Where You Are”
