There was a time when I believed that knowing more would make life easier. That information would bring certainty. That understanding everything would protect me from pain. But life gently corrected me. I began to notice something unsettling:The more I knew at a surface level, the more anxious I felt.The mind collected facts, possibilities, outcomesContinue reading “Does Knowledge Create Fear — or Free us from it?”
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Sometimes We Break to Become Whole Again
Pain helps you grow. I wrote these words 13 years ago, not realizing that I was quietly preparing myself for the storms that were coming. Back then, these words felt like gentle wisdom. Today, they feel like truth, carved into my soul by lived experience. Sometimes things must change so you can change. Life askedContinue reading “Sometimes We Break to Become Whole Again”
The Thin Line Between What Happened and How It Happened
Every incident has two aspects, what happened and how it happened. The thin line between these two is where the truth quietly resides. Most of us get caught in the surface of what, the facts, the sequence, the visible story. But rarely do we pause long enough to explore the how the emotions, choices, reactions,Continue reading “The Thin Line Between What Happened and How It Happened”
Respond with courage, not control
In relationships, the instinct to control often arises from fear—fear of losing someone, of being misunderstood, or of not feeling enough. Control may look like dictating decisions, silencing the other person’s truth, or insisting on being right. But control, though it may feel like safety, only suffocates love. Real love doesn’t demand control—it requires courage.Continue reading “Respond with courage, not control”
SELF LOVE AND SOUL HEALING 