Oh, my heart,You have carried the heaviest burdens in silence.You beat faithfully even when sorrow weighed you down,even when betrayal tried to shatter your rhythm. You have held love so vastit overflowed into the lives of my daughters,wrapping them in safety,reminding them that they were cherishedeven when I felt unseen myself. You have endured theContinue reading “Ode to my heart”
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The Many Faces of Uncertainty
We often imagine uncertainty as a single, looming shadow, as though it were one vast fog obscuring the road ahead. But uncertainty is not monolithic. It is more like a shifting landscape, sometimes a dense forest, sometimes an open sky, sometimes an ocean with tides that carry us in directions we can not predict. ToContinue reading “The Many Faces of Uncertainty”
Ode to My Eyes
Oh, my eyes,You have been the quiet witnesses of my journey.You have seen the storms of betrayal,the weight of rejection,and the sharp edges of words that tried to break me. You have also seen my daughters’ faces,their laughter, their innocence,and the beauty of souls untainted by society’s harsh gaze.Through you, I have watched them grow,andContinue reading “Ode to My Eyes”
A Letter to My Body
Dear Body, I see you. I know I haven’t always treated you with the tenderness you deserve. Growing up, no one told me about good touch, bad touch, or even the simple changes you would go through. You felt like a mystery, and I didn’t always know how to honour you. As I grew older,Continue reading “A Letter to My Body”
Scarcity Mindset: The Ancient Story Our Minds Still Tell
For much of human history, life was uncertain. Our ancestors lived through harsh seasons, unpredictable harvests, and the constant possibility of losing what they had. To survive, they learned to store, protect, and hold on to resources tightly. That instinct kept them alive. Today, most of us don’t face the same daily threats to survival,Continue reading “Scarcity Mindset: The Ancient Story Our Minds Still Tell”
What feels like Home
Home is not just walls or a place; home is the embrace of my parents, the safety of knowing they were my roots. Home is the laughter and warmth of family, the place where I first learnt love and belonging. Home is, in my amazing, beautiful girls, in their voices, their hugs, and the wayContinue reading “What feels like Home”
When Strength is Misunderstood
I have always carried a deep respect for individual differences. I never wanted to impose my way of thinking or living on those I love. Yet, despite this, I often found myself misunderstood. My family sometimes saw me as opinionated, bossy, or strong-headed. Those words have weighed heavily on me, not because I saw myselfContinue reading “When Strength is Misunderstood”
A Letter to Myself – Reclaiming My Agency
I see the pain you carried when you were left waiting, waiting for love, waiting for touch, waiting for your husband to notice and choose you. I know how heavy it felt to be met with rejection, to feel invisible in the very place where you longed to be seen the most. But today, IContinue reading “A Letter to Myself – Reclaiming My Agency”
Forgiveness as a Path to Reclaiming Power
Forgiveness is often misunderstood as weakness, as if letting go of resentment means excusing the wrong that was done to us. In reality, forgiveness requires immense internal strength. To forgive is to reclaim the power that pain, betrayal, and anger once held over us. When someone deceives or betrays us, it can feel like theyContinue reading “Forgiveness as a Path to Reclaiming Power”
The myth of sacrifice in relationships
Somewhere along the line, I, too, believed that sacrifice was the mark of true commitment in relationships. I thought love meant putting my needs aside, letting go of parts of myself, and carrying the weight in silence just to keep the bond intact. For a while, I convinced myself this was strength, loyalty, and evenContinue reading “The myth of sacrifice in relationships”
SELF LOVE AND SOUL HEALING 