Life has a way of revealing truths that remain hidden during our calmest seasons. When everything is smooth, people show us the version of themselves they’re proud of , the version they want us to see. But it’s during the storms, the unpredictable upheavals, that their real character quietly rises to the surface. I learnedContinue reading “When the Storm Hit, I Saw Who Truly Stood With Me”
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“If I Have to Ask, I Don’t Want It Anymore” – The Silent Cry of Women
Frida Kahlo’s powerful words to her husband are a timeless reminder of the emotional labour women often shoulder in relationships: “I’m not asking you to kiss me or to apologize when I think you’re wrong. I won’t ask you to hug me when I need it most or to tell me I’m beautiful, even ifContinue reading ““If I Have to Ask, I Don’t Want It Anymore” – The Silent Cry of Women”
Goodbye, Johor – My Chapter of Becoming
Nine years ago, I came to Johor for my daughters’ education, never knowing that this place would become both a sanctuary and a battlefield for my own evolution. What began as a brief chapter turned into a transformative journey. Then came the lockdowns, the world paused during lockdowns, and so did I—only to find myselfContinue reading “Goodbye, Johor – My Chapter of Becoming”
Perseverance: The Quiet Power Behind Every Success
In a world that glorifies overnight success and viral breakthroughs, it’s easy to believe that a single burst of effort—a grand gesture, a big risk, or one intense push—is all it takes to achieve our dreams. But the truth is far less glamorous and far more grounded: real success is built through perseverance. A singleContinue reading “Perseverance: The Quiet Power Behind Every Success”
Trauma as a Teacher: The Wake-Up Call We Never Asked For
Trauma was my wake-up call; it hurt, but it also showed me who I AM. We don’t choose trauma. It crashes in uninvited—messy, painful, disorienting. And yet, for many of us, it becomes the pivot point. The moment everything changed. Not because we wanted it, but because we couldn’t ignore it. When it hit me,Continue reading “Trauma as a Teacher: The Wake-Up Call We Never Asked For”
Last sunset and rainbow of 2024
As the rain began to fade and dawn approached, the world around me transformed into a masterpiece of contrasts. On one side, the setting sun dipped low, painting the horizon with hues of gold, orange, and crimson. On the other side, a brilliant rainbow arched across the sky, its colours vivid and alive. The airContinue reading “Last sunset and rainbow of 2024”
If You Love Someone, Don’t Judge Them
Love is often described as the most unconditional, accepting, and liberating feeling. At its core, love creates a space where someone can be authentically themselves without fear of rejection or criticism. When we say, “If you love someone, don’t judge them,” we’re embracing the idea that love isn’t about perfecting someone—it’s about accepting them asContinue reading “If You Love Someone, Don’t Judge Them”
The Impact of Expectations on Relationships: Are Expectations Sabotaging Your Relationship?
Relationships are a blend of companionship, shared dreams, and moments of connection. Yet, one of the biggest challenges we face in relationships comes from expectations—often unspoken, sometimes unconscious, and frequently harmful. But what do these expectations really mean, and whom do they actually reflect? Are we looking for something in others, or are we reallyContinue reading “The Impact of Expectations on Relationships: Are Expectations Sabotaging Your Relationship?”
Who you are is more precious than what are your possessions
Remember, what you possess in the world will be found on the day of your death to belong to others, but what you are will be yours forever. This reminds us of the transient nature of material possessions compared to the lasting value of our inner qualities and character. The things we acquire—money, belongings, andContinue reading “Who you are is more precious than what are your possessions”
SELF LOVE AND SOUL HEALING 