Life Doesn’t Wait Life manages its way anyway.It doesn’t pause for our confusion, our grief, or our unfinished conversations.It doesn’t wait for closure, clarity, or courage.Life simply moves. While we are overthinking, delaying, or holding on to what once was, life is already unfolding somewhere else quietly rearranging people, paths, and possibilities.Days turn into yearsContinue reading “Life goes on”
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Grief changed me, and that was never meant to be understood
After Watching My Mother Leave, Life No Longer Looked the Same My mother did not have a long illness. There was no warning, no preparation, no slow goodbye. She had a viral infection. She was vomiting.We admitted her to the hospital believing she would return home. She didn’t. I was with her in the hospitalContinue reading “Grief changed me, and that was never meant to be understood”
When You Hit the Wall, Look for the Window
There comes a moment in every life when the path forward disappears. You try harder. You pray deeper. You wait longer. And still the wall stands. We are taught to see walls as failures, punishments, or signs that something has gone wrong. But spiritually, a wall is often a pause created by life itself notContinue reading “When You Hit the Wall, Look for the Window”
Sometimes We Break to Become Whole Again
Pain helps you grow. I wrote these words 13 years ago, not realizing that I was quietly preparing myself for the storms that were coming. Back then, these words felt like gentle wisdom. Today, they feel like truth, carved into my soul by lived experience. Sometimes things must change so you can change. Life askedContinue reading “Sometimes We Break to Become Whole Again”
From “Stupid Housewife syndrome ” to Master’s Graduate: Rewriting My Life Story
There are some labels we never asked for, but somehow they get stitched into our skin.Mine was “stupid housewife.”It was a name given to me long before I even understood what it meant a gift from a patriarchal culture where a woman who speaks, questions, or dreams is seen as a threat. In a worldContinue reading “From “Stupid Housewife syndrome ” to Master’s Graduate: Rewriting My Life Story”
When the Storm Hit, I Saw Who Truly Stood With Me
Life has a way of revealing truths that remain hidden during our calmest seasons. When everything is smooth, people show us the version of themselves they’re proud of , the version they want us to see. But it’s during the storms, the unpredictable upheavals, that their real character quietly rises to the surface. I learnedContinue reading “When the Storm Hit, I Saw Who Truly Stood With Me”
Choose Your Suffering Wisely: The Path to Real Power
Avoiding suffering is a dead end. No matter how hard we try to run from pain, life has a way of reminding us that it’s part of being human. You will suffer either way so the real question is: What are you willing to suffer for? There’s a big difference between meaningless pain and meaningfulContinue reading “Choose Your Suffering Wisely: The Path to Real Power”
The Art of Rising: Healing Through Small Steps and Self-Realization
It’s not how you fall it’s how you get back up.Life has a way of humbling us, reminding us that growth often comes through discomfort. The ladder of life is full of splinters, and they prick the hardest when we’re sliding down. Yet, it’s in those painful slides that we learn what resilience truly means.Continue reading “The Art of Rising: Healing Through Small Steps and Self-Realization”
The Journey Is the Reward: What You’re Seeking Is Already Seeking You
We often spend so much of our lives chasing a distant goal success, love, peace, or purpose believing that happiness lies somewhere ahead, waiting to be found. Yet in this endless pursuit, we sometimes forget that the journey itself is the essence of life. Every step we take, every setback we face, and every momentContinue reading “The Journey Is the Reward: What You’re Seeking Is Already Seeking You”
The Thin Line Between What Happened and How It Happened
Every incident has two aspects, what happened and how it happened. The thin line between these two is where the truth quietly resides. Most of us get caught in the surface of what, the facts, the sequence, the visible story. But rarely do we pause long enough to explore the how the emotions, choices, reactions,Continue reading “The Thin Line Between What Happened and How It Happened”
