Society has long placed the weight of a marriage’s success or failure on women, often absolving men of any real accountability. When a relationship crumbles, the common narrative is that the woman didn’t do enough—she wasn’t patient enough, loving enough, understanding enough. But rarely does anyone question if the man lacked emotional maturity, self-awareness, orContinue reading “Why Is the Burden of a Marriage’s Success Always on the Woman?”
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Mastering Fear: The Key to Understanding and Influence
Fear is a primal force, deeply embedded in all living creatures. It is an instinct that ensures survival, sharpening the senses and preparing the body to fight or flee. But fear is also a tool—one that can be manipulated, controlled, and even turned against itself. The ability to influence others through fear requires a deepContinue reading “Mastering Fear: The Key to Understanding and Influence”
The Journey vs. The Destination
Have you ever noticed that when you’re eagerly waiting for something to happen, time seems to drag? Whether it’s anticipating a vacation, a promotion, or a major life goal, the more fixated you are on the end result, the slower it feels to arrive. This is because focusing solely on the destination distorts your perceptionContinue reading “The Journey vs. The Destination”
Cherishing Every Moment: The Beauty of Ichigo Ichie
In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in stress, distractions, and the endless chase for what’s next. But what if there was a simple philosophy that could help us embrace life as it happens, allowing us to truly appreciate every experience? Enter Ichigo Ichie, a beautiful Japanese concept that encourages us toContinue reading “Cherishing Every Moment: The Beauty of Ichigo Ichie”
The Other Side of the Coin: Recognizing the Positives in Our Upbringing
In recent years, the conversation around inner child healing, past traumas, and difficult upbringing situations has gained significant traction. Social media is filled with stories, reels, and posts advocating for addressing childhood wounds and blaming upbringing for negative attitudes, beliefs, and behaviours. While these discussions are valid and provide a platform for many to healContinue reading “The Other Side of the Coin: Recognizing the Positives in Our Upbringing”
Assumptions: The Silent Killer of Relationships
Assumptions are often seen as a mental shortcut, a way for our minds to make sense of the unknown. However, in relationships—whether personal or professional—they can act as silent killers, eroding trust, understanding, and connection. For me, the sting of assumptions is particularly sharp when people preemptively judge my reactions without ever engaging in aContinue reading “Assumptions: The Silent Killer of Relationships”
When Someone Walks Away After You’ve Addressed Their Behaviour.
It can be incredibly disheartening when someone chooses to walk away from you simply because you’ve expressed how their actions have made you feel. Whether it’s neglect, disrespect, or disregard for your boundaries, addressing these behaviours shouldn’t lead to the end of a relationship—yet, sometimes, it does. When this happens, it’s essential to recognize thatContinue reading “When Someone Walks Away After You’ve Addressed Their Behaviour.”
Letting Go: A Lesson in Love, Self-Worth, and True Compassion
There’s a paradox at the heart of love: the deeper it is, the more it requires us to let go. This is a lesson I’ve come to understand in the past few years—one that has been as painful as it is profound. Letting go of someone you love, truly love, isn’t about giving up onContinue reading “Letting Go: A Lesson in Love, Self-Worth, and True Compassion”
Who you are is more precious than what are your possessions
Remember, what you possess in the world will be found on the day of your death to belong to others, but what you are will be yours forever. This reminds us of the transient nature of material possessions compared to the lasting value of our inner qualities and character. The things we acquire—money, belongings, andContinue reading “Who you are is more precious than what are your possessions”
Life as a Cash Register: Every Thought, Every Deed Matters
Imagine life as a cash register—every thought, every deed, every choice we make is an entry that leaves an imprint on our personal ledger. Like transactions, each action is recorded and contributes to the balance of our lives, shaping our character, relationships, and experiences. Just as in a store where a cashier’s entries determine theContinue reading “Life as a Cash Register: Every Thought, Every Deed Matters”
SELF LOVE AND SOUL HEALING 