The Unspoken Realization: Finding Solace in Self-Acceptance

We spend our lives pouring our hearts into the happiness of those we hold dear. Every smile we evoke, every problem we solve for them, and every effort we make is rooted in the desire to see them content. Yet, for many, there comes a moment of unsettling clarity—a realization that while we prioritize theirContinue reading “The Unspoken Realization: Finding Solace in Self-Acceptance”

It’s Better to Focus on What’s Right Than Who’s Right

In our fast-paced world, it’s common for disagreements to arise. Whether it’s in personal relationships, workplace settings, or broader societal issues, the focus often shifts to determining who is right rather than understanding what is right. This inclination to assign blame or victory can overshadow the larger picture—one that reveals deeper truths about the situationContinue reading “It’s Better to Focus on What’s Right Than Who’s Right”

Assumptions: The Silent Killer of Relationships

Assumptions are often seen as a mental shortcut, a way for our minds to make sense of the unknown. However, in relationships—whether personal or professional—they can act as silent killers, eroding trust, understanding, and connection. For me, the sting of assumptions is particularly sharp when people preemptively judge my reactions without ever engaging in aContinue reading “Assumptions: The Silent Killer of Relationships”

Truth and Tales

The difference between truth and tale, much like the difference between the photographs in a seed catalogue and what actually grows in the garden, lies in the gap between expectation and reality. In relationships, this metaphor beautifully illustrates how our perceptions—of others, of ourselves, and of the relationship itself—are often shaped by ideals and assumptionsContinue reading “Truth and Tales”

Don’t take others for granted

It’s easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission, but it’s kinder to ask for permission. Especially now, be sure to ask before making a decision that will affect someone else, because others are likely to be more sensitive and on-edge. At the time, you might think that what you’re doing will benefit everyone, butContinue reading “Don’t take others for granted”

Don’t Judge

Whether you’re judging others, or feeling judged, at its core, a judgment is an opinion or decision based on thoughts, feelings and evidence. ..and may not be true always .Judging and assuming the other person is very hurtful and humiliating for the person being judged .At the same time others opinion shouldn’t matter to youContinue reading “Don’t Judge”