You’re Not “Too Much” or “Too Distant” Your Attachment Is Responding Every relationship activates an attachment dynamic within us.How we reach for love.How we protect our heart.How we react when connection feels shaky or uncertain. Most of us grow up believing our attachment style is something fixed “I’m anxious,” “I’m avoidant,” “I’m secure.” While upbringingContinue reading “Attachment Is Co-Created: Understanding Relationship Triggers”
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Looking at Ourselves with Compassion
As a woman, it can feel quietly painful to observe how often women are encouraged subtly and constantly to see themselves as something to be displayed. Not because women are doing something wrong, but because many are simply responding to the world they have grown up in. From a young age, women are taught directlyContinue reading “Looking at Ourselves with Compassion”
The Loneliness of Loving Selflessly
Unconditional love is not loud.It does not argue.It does not demand explanations. Sometimes, loving someone unconditionally means giving them exactly what they ask for even when what they ask for is the most painful thing you could offer. They ask for distance.For silence.For an ending they never explain. And you give it. Not because youContinue reading “The Loneliness of Loving Selflessly”
The Sacred Losses of Becoming
There is a quiet grief that comes with growth not the loud, dramatic kind, but the soft ache of noticing who no longer walks beside you. As you evolve, some people fall away. Not because you failed. Not because they were wrong or you were unworthy. But because the version of you that once fitContinue reading “The Sacred Losses of Becoming”
Sometimes We Break to Become Whole Again
Pain helps you grow. I wrote these words 13 years ago, not realizing that I was quietly preparing myself for the storms that were coming. Back then, these words felt like gentle wisdom. Today, they feel like truth, carved into my soul by lived experience. Sometimes things must change so you can change. Life askedContinue reading “Sometimes We Break to Become Whole Again”
When the Storm Hit, I Saw Who Truly Stood With Me
Life has a way of revealing truths that remain hidden during our calmest seasons. When everything is smooth, people show us the version of themselves they’re proud of , the version they want us to see. But it’s during the storms, the unpredictable upheavals, that their real character quietly rises to the surface. I learnedContinue reading “When the Storm Hit, I Saw Who Truly Stood With Me”
The Bridge of Invisible Efforts: Trusting the Work You Cannot See
There are days when you give your best and yet feel like nothing is moving. You try, you show up, and still, life looks unchanged as if everything you do disappears into the stillness. But what you can’t see is that every small action, every quiet decision to keep going, is laying down another plankContinue reading “The Bridge of Invisible Efforts: Trusting the Work You Cannot See”
This is me. I honour this strength
Today, I honour my strengths. I acknowledge the gifts Maa has placed within me. I am complete, I am whole, I am divine.” I have the courage to face storms in life and rise again. I hold deep compassion and empathy for others. I carry resilience, even when life tests me to my core. IContinue reading “This is me. I honour this strength”
A Letter to My Body
Dear Body, I see you. I know I haven’t always treated you with the tenderness you deserve. Growing up, no one told me about good touch, bad touch, or even the simple changes you would go through. You felt like a mystery, and I didn’t always know how to honour you. As I grew older,Continue reading “A Letter to My Body”
What feels like Home
Home is not just walls or a place; home is the embrace of my parents, the safety of knowing they were my roots. Home is the laughter and warmth of family, the place where I first learnt love and belonging. Home is, in my amazing, beautiful girls, in their voices, their hugs, and the wayContinue reading “What feels like Home”
SELF LOVE AND SOUL HEALING 