The Loneliness of Loving Selflessly

Unconditional love is not loud.It does not argue.It does not demand explanations. Sometimes, loving someone unconditionally means giving them exactly what they ask for even when what they ask for is the most painful thing you could offer. They ask for distance.For silence.For an ending they never explain. And you give it. Not because youContinue reading “The Loneliness of Loving Selflessly”

The Mind’s Filter: Why We Only See What We Want to See

We like to think of ourselves as rational beings — that we see the world as it is. But the truth is, we see the world as we are. Our minds are not passive recorders of reality; they are active editors. Every moment, the brain filters, selects, and interprets information to fit a story itContinue reading “The Mind’s Filter: Why We Only See What We Want to See”

When the Storm Hit, I Saw Who Truly Stood With Me

Life has a way of revealing truths that remain hidden during our calmest seasons. When everything is smooth, people show us the version of themselves they’re proud of , the version they want us to see. But it’s during the storms, the unpredictable upheavals, that their real character quietly rises to the surface. I learnedContinue reading “When the Storm Hit, I Saw Who Truly Stood With Me”

A Letter to Myself – Reclaiming My Agency

I see the pain you carried when you were left waiting, waiting for love, waiting for touch, waiting for your husband to notice and choose you. I know how heavy it felt to be met with rejection, to feel invisible in the very place where you longed to be seen the most. But today, IContinue reading “A Letter to Myself – Reclaiming My Agency”

Forgiveness as a Path to Reclaiming Power

Forgiveness is often misunderstood as weakness, as if letting go of resentment means excusing the wrong that was done to us. In reality, forgiveness requires immense internal strength. To forgive is to reclaim the power that pain, betrayal, and anger once held over us. When someone deceives or betrays us, it can feel like theyContinue reading “Forgiveness as a Path to Reclaiming Power”

The myth of sacrifice in relationships

Somewhere along the line, I, too, believed that sacrifice was the mark of true commitment in relationships. I thought love meant putting my needs aside, letting go of parts of myself, and carrying the weight in silence just to keep the bond intact. For a while, I convinced myself this was strength, loyalty, and evenContinue reading “The myth of sacrifice in relationships”

Every Breath a New Beginning: Vipassana in My Life

Finding peace, clarity, and resilience through awareness “Peace is not found by escaping life, but by meeting it with awareness.” There are moments in life when challenges arrive like unexpected storms, testing our patience, shaking our stability, and leaving us searching for ground to stand on. For me, Vipassana became that ground. Over the years,Continue reading “Every Breath a New Beginning: Vipassana in My Life”

Courage, Strength, and Self-Compassion: A Message from My Future Self

Not long ago, I caught a glimpse of my future self. She appeared radiant, surrounded by luminous hues of green, purple, white, and blue—each colour carrying a message that reached deep into my soul. The words that came forward were simple yet powerful: courage, strength, and self-compassion. The green aura reminded me of the heart’sContinue reading “Courage, Strength, and Self-Compassion: A Message from My Future Self”

Awakening Through Inner Vision

Carl Jung once said, “Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” In these words lies a profound truth about human consciousness and self-realization. We live in a world that constantly encourages outward striving — to chase goals, admiration, possessions, andContinue reading “Awakening Through Inner Vision”

Make the Unconscious Conscious—Or It Will Rule Your Life

There’s a powerful truth in Carl Jung’s words: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate.”So many of our choices, reactions, fears, and even repeated life patterns are not entirely conscious decisions—but subtle reflections of beliefs, memories, or wounds hidden beneath the surface. The unconscious isContinue reading “Make the Unconscious Conscious—Or It Will Rule Your Life”