I Choose Me

I am worthy. Of love. Of respect. Of joy. Of a life that feels good in my soul—not just one that looks good on the outside. I don’t need to justify this. I don’t need reasons. Simply being here is enough. But life doesn’t always make it easy to hold on to that truth. EspeciallyContinue reading “I Choose Me”

We all are responsible for our own suffering. Stop blaming and take responsibility

Blame is an easy escape, yet it never grants true freedom. Instead, it traps the mind in a cycle of false perception, reinforcing the illusion that suffering is caused by external forces. It’s tempting to believe that someone else’s words, actions, or choices are responsible for pain, but what if suffering is not about whatContinue reading “We all are responsible for our own suffering. Stop blaming and take responsibility”

Optimism and Humour: The Grease and Glue of Life

Life is unpredictable, often throwing challenges our way that test our resilience and spirit. In moments of adversity, two essential qualities—optimism and humour—become grease and glue that help us navigate hardships. They not only keep us moving forward but also bind us together, making even the darkest times bearable. History and personal experiences alike haveContinue reading “Optimism and Humour: The Grease and Glue of Life”

On Life’s Journey: Faith, Virtue, Wisdom, and Mindfulness

Life is a journey—unpredictable, sometimes turbulent, yet profoundly transformative. Along this path, we seek guidance, comfort, and protection to navigate the uncertainties and challenges that arise. Just as a traveller requires sustenance, shelter, illumination, and security, we, too, need essential elements to support our spiritual and emotional well-being. Faith, virtuous deeds, wisdom, and mindfulness serveContinue reading “On Life’s Journey: Faith, Virtue, Wisdom, and Mindfulness”

The Power of Human Bonds: What Truly Connects Us

In a world that often feels fast-paced and disconnected, the bond between people remains one of the most powerful forces shaping our lives. Whether through friendship, love, or shared beliefs and experiences, human connections give us a sense of belonging, purpose, and strength. But what makes these bonds so strong, and why do they matter?Continue reading “The Power of Human Bonds: What Truly Connects Us”

The Power of Choice: A Gift to My Daughters

I did my best to  raise my daughters with the belief that freedom of choice is one of the greatest gifts a person can have. I wanted them to embrace who they are, stand firm in their values, and walk their paths without fear or hesitation. I never wanted them to feel confined by expectations,Continue reading “The Power of Choice: A Gift to My Daughters”

YOLO: You Only Live Once – Make It Count

“You Only Live Once”—a phrase often thrown around casually, but it carries a profound truth. Life is fleeting, unpredictable, and offers no do-overs. The idea behind YOLO is simple: seize the moment, take risks, and live without regrets. But does living once mean living recklessly? Not necessarily. The Balance Between Risk and Responsibility-Many associate YOLOContinue reading “YOLO: You Only Live Once – Make It Count”

Why Is the Burden of a Marriage’s Success Always on the Woman?

Society has long placed the weight of a marriage’s success or failure on women, often absolving men of any real accountability. When a relationship crumbles, the common narrative is that the woman didn’t do enough—she wasn’t patient enough, loving enough, understanding enough. But rarely does anyone question if the man lacked emotional maturity, self-awareness, orContinue reading “Why Is the Burden of a Marriage’s Success Always on the Woman?”

Living in Secrets: The Fear of Ourselves

We live in secrets. Hiding behind masks, afraid of what the world—or even we—might see if we let the truth slip. We bury emotions, lock away thoughts, and pretend to be what we think is acceptable. But in doing so, we only create more chaos in lives that are already messy. Emotions are unpredictable, andContinue reading “Living in Secrets: The Fear of Ourselves”

Mastering Fear: The Key to Understanding and Influence

Fear is a primal force, deeply embedded in all living creatures. It is an instinct that ensures survival, sharpening the senses and preparing the body to fight or flee. But fear is also a tool—one that can be manipulated, controlled, and even turned against itself. The ability to influence others through fear requires a deepContinue reading “Mastering Fear: The Key to Understanding and Influence”