SELF LOVE AND SOUL HEALING

Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them. Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another- they have more individuation work to do first. Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives- they have another path and purpose to walk first. Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love’s leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. But this is not always true. Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. Sometimes they know something we don’t- they know their limits at that moment in time. Real love is no easy path- readiness is everything. May we grieve loss without personalizing it. May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover.
Jeff Brown

“Communicate , Ask Questions , Never assume” are so important. Please never judge anyone for anything without knowing the truth from all sides …But unfortunately in today’s world if you talk people think ” you know it all ” or ” you are bossy or arrogant ” and if you ask questions ” you are inquisitive ” . We all need to change our mindset that stop assuming , stop giving feelings to your fears & thoughts .” True communication not only means talking but also actively listening.

Here Are 6 Ways to Respect Others:
Greet those you meet with a warm, friendly smile.
Look people directly in the eye when you speak to them.
Be patient and interested when dealing with others, not rushed and irritated.
Remember people’s names and use them.
Say thank you and mean it when you’re helped, or when someone gives you their business.
Listen to others without interrupting

It’s so beautiful when you feel that your connection with your partner goes beyond just a physical, emotional or even mental level. Having that sense of sacredness be a part of your partnership allows it to fulfill you on so many more levels. It is good to make sure that those you decide to commit yourself to, have similar beliefs as yours. 

This is not to say that you need to have identical life philosophies or agree on everything, but it definitely makes a relationship more meaningful and likely to last longer when you are able to create a life with your partner that is built on your fundamental beliefs. 

Your attitude influences your world and everything you do in it. It defines the energy you send out and in turn,takes the shape and colour in your circumstances. If you have a positive attitude, you are more welcoming and people are drawn to you . If you are depressed angry and unhappy, no one wants to be around you. You literally push people and opportunities away from yourself.

The amazing thing is that we all have the freedom to choose which attitude we want to adopt and live with . There is no prefect way, each way is unique to every individual. Knowing that you have a choice whether to REACT OR RESPOND when faced with unexpected problems and challenging situations. Just remember to keep a positive attitude and this too shall pass .

We humans don’t even realise that how we get use to living with judgements around us . Growing up the parents judging us then siblings most importantly we judging ourselves. With these judgements comes fears and resistance that I am not good enough. I am not capable. I am not worthy

All these are programmes that have been installed in us . Now we need to learn to uninstall these programmes and the best way is ask these negative programmes to leave now and in that place install positive programmes .

Affirmations and manifestation are the best ways to uninstall and install new software in your DNA.

Keep learning and keep working with your inner child . What doesn’t serve to our highest good can leave now and what needs to be with us can increase in me now .

Respect yourself your elders teachers and everyone even for the difference of opinions and decisions.

Honour ourselves and take responsibility for our thoughts and actions

Stay Positive and Hopeful in all situations of life . This too shall pass

Maintain the Balance between your inner and outer world and in all your relationships and situations

Always be Thankful to your God to this Universe 🙏 for what you have and what you don’t have . Attitude of Gratitude in every walk of life takes us a long way .

Don’t stumble over something behind you. Don’t use the past as an excuse to miss out on today. You do not heal the wounds of the past by digging deeper into them.

Acceptance truly is the bitter pill you have to bravely swallow to move beyond yesterday’s sorrows. It’s a choice you must make. Because the truth of the matter is that history only dictates the future if you allow it. In other words, you only have to relive it if you choose to. Choose wisely

Remember, ‘perfect’ is the enemy of ‘good.’ One of the biggest challenges for people who want to improve themselves and improve the world is learning to accept things as they are. Sometimes it’s better to accept and appreciate the world as it is, and people as they are, rather than to trying to make everything and everyone conform to an impossible ideal. No, you shouldn’t accept a life of mediocrity, but learn to love and value things when they are less than perfect.

Don’t escape from emotional wounds using distraction, it might temporarily relieve pain but cannot provide healing.
For healing to take place one must acknowledge the pain within you and forgive yourself and others involved and work hard daily with affirmations and meditation to let go