Forgiveness Isn’t Forgetting — And That’s Okay

We like to think that the chapter is closed once we’ve forgiven someone. But now and then, a thought sneaks in: Did they ever regret what they did to me? After everything — the loyalty, the honesty, the years of showing up — how could they just walk away or betray that? And suddenly, we’reContinue reading “Forgiveness Isn’t Forgetting — And That’s Okay”

I Choose Me

I am worthy. Of love. Of respect. Of joy. Of a life that feels good in my soul—not just one that looks good on the outside. I don’t need to justify this. I don’t need reasons. Simply being here is enough. But life doesn’t always make it easy to hold on to that truth. EspeciallyContinue reading “I Choose Me”

Happy and blessed 2025

As the year comes to a close, I find myself breathing deeply for the first time in what feels like forever. After six years of navigating one storm after another—losing my mom, facing betrayal from friends and business partners, enduring a global pandemic, experiencing abandonment and separation from my husband, heartbreak, liver failure, and losingContinue reading “Happy and blessed 2025”

If You Love Someone, Don’t Judge Them

Love is often described as the most unconditional, accepting, and liberating feeling. At its core, love creates a space where someone can be authentically themselves without fear of rejection or criticism. When we say, “If you love someone, don’t judge them,” we’re embracing the idea that love isn’t about perfecting someone—it’s about accepting them asContinue reading “If You Love Someone, Don’t Judge Them”

Letting Go: An Act of Unconditional Love

True love, I’ve learned, is not about possession or control but about freedom and respect for the choices of those we hold dear. Loving unconditionally means embracing the reality that people have their own journeys to follow. When my family chose to leave, I didn’t cling to them or ask them to stay, not becauseContinue reading “Letting Go: An Act of Unconditional Love”

I did my part. I hope my absence gives you peace that my love couldn’t

My dearest daughters, As I write these words, I want you to know that every choice I’ve made, every boundary I’ve set, has come from a place of deep love and care for you. I have tried to be there for you in all the ways I knew how, even though sometimes it may haveContinue reading “I did my part. I hope my absence gives you peace that my love couldn’t”

Lord Rama & Sita – unconditional love

The story of Lord Rama and Sita from the *Ramayana* is often held up as an example of unconditional love, loyalty, and righteousness. Despite their unwavering bond, they faced immense trials throughout their lives. Among these trials was the kidnapping of Sita by the demon king Ravana and the subsequent societal scrutiny regarding her integrityContinue reading “Lord Rama & Sita – unconditional love”

Love is who you are by Kyle Gray

I trust in my gifts. I know that I can shine!” Loving yourself can be one of the greatest challenges to overcome, but not for your soul, for your ego. The reason self‑acceptance can be so hard is because your ego will try to make your love conditional. You will love yourself when your bodyContinue reading “Love is who you are by Kyle Gray”

Negative self talk

We humans are always doing this to ourselves. Our mind could be filling itself with frightening “what if” statements. Dwelling on countless worries and imaginary negative outcomes is like torturing ourself for no reason, especially when it’s about something that hasn’t happened yet. Turn down the negative self-talk so that you can hear reality!

Self acceptance

Without self-acceptance, you will limit and block how much happiness, prosperity, love, and success you will enjoy. The miracle of self-acceptance is that if you are willing to accept that happiness already exists in you, you will begin to experience more happiness around you.